Sibling Conflict Chart

We have had this item for months now on our dishwasher and we use it all the time!! Gets to the heart of things and helps we have a tool to go to when I’m having trouble keeping my own emotions and reactions under control during the kids’ conflicts!

This chart was easy for the children to follow. They picked it up within days and used it heavily for the first two - three weeks.. today I just realized that the arguments haven’t been so frequent. In fact, they haven’t had any real big issues to work out and the minor ones are met with an apology right quick. The love between my oldest and the middle child seems to be bridging and I couldn’t be more thankful. Paring this with the “Siblings Devotional” has been the best decision I could have made for my family. It is worth the time, effort and money. ❤️

We have started using this and every time it has been awesome. Just have to get in the habit of grabbing it more often

This chart is amazing. It provides the steps and verse(s) to point them to Jesus and give them the “why” behind the issue. My older kids look them up themselves and make restitution while I help the younger ones through the process. This chart has definitely been a game changer!

This wonderful magnet has brought some peace and great conversations to our home! In a house with 4 boys conflicts are inevitable, but, rather than play referee all day, I can say “go to the fridge” .Instead of continuing to bicker, they get to gather some resolve, self reflect, and we all get to have meaningful conversations.

Before finding this, I had been looking for ways to teach my children to work through conflicts. After using it for only a week, my kids know that when they fight, I'm going to send them to the sibling conflict chart. My son even suggested it one day. Thanks to the easy steps, my kids (9 and 10) can do it independently!

Great for elementary age and up kids!

This chart is an excellent resource as a parent even more so than for the kids! My 7 year old daughter and 5 year old son have been in a season of frequently fighting and being unkind to one another. I bought this chart as well as a Bible study. As a parent I sometimes don’t know how to respond when my kids have conflict, this spells it out for you! I love that it looks to the word so my kids know I’m not just “being a mean mom” or “taking someone’s side” but i am looking to the source of truth.

My kids are like new kids after using this it’s so amazing and the fact that they are learning about god and helping with how to navigate there emotions with this game changer.