The words we say matter in a HUGE way to God, and they have tremendous power over our lives and the lives of those around us.
This 4-week Bible study for kids covers one of the most powerful issues we face: controlling our tongue. The Bible shows us how to choose life or death.
Why you'll love this Bible study
Whether you already know you want to work harder at controlling your tongue or you haven’t quite decided on that yet, there’s a lot in this Bible study for you to learn. First, we will explore the power our tongue has—to do both good and evil. Then, I'll show you 10 positive effects of controlling our tongue, called FRUITS. Finally, we will learn simple ways to remember all we’ve learned and tame our tongue even when it’s hard to say the right things.
Are you ready to speak life, enjoying the vineyard of good fruit God has for you? Let’s go!
Our Bible studies come in 4 levels that work together perfectly for family study. Each lesson has a consistent key truth, key Scripture, and central theme no matter what age level your kids are working in.
Each study in the family Bible study bundle also comes with a fun pack including verse cards, stickers, and a bookmark. A fun and conversational Bible study button is also included.
Help the Bible come to life for your kids through award-winning audio dramas. Fruit of the Tongue Bible study bundle makes an excellent faith-filled gift as it encourages spiritual growth through engaging Bible study, exciting audio drama, and daily truth reminders (that just so happen to look pretty cool).
These CDs are supplemental and can be used before, during, or after your study. You decide!
Kilimanjaro (all ages)
The whole family will love going on a musical adventure with Patch the Pirate and his crew as they take Professor Rocky Feller to the continent of Africa to search for King Solomon's throne. Along the way, you'll learn the real problem with words. Your family will love listening to this musical audio drama before, during, or after you complete the Bible study. It's sure to spark good conversations about how to watch what you say.
Frozen Fire (ages 8+)
You are about to become acquainted with a young girl who changed the world! Facing myriad trials, including abandonment and the death-grip of a terrifying blizzard, Betty learns the power of words in a captivating way. You will fall in love with Betty, whose loyalty is demonstrated through tremendous courage and sacrifice.
Whether you use it before, after, or during the study, it's sure to spark great conversations about the power of the words we speak.
What version of the Bible do you use?
I study and write using the KJV and ESV Bibles. However, my studies are written with the intent that children and families will look up Scripture in the Bible of their choice, with specific attention taken to assure questions can be answered from a variety of translations. So you should be able to use whatever version your family prefers. It's my passion to see kids opening the Bible themselves, so we've been very intentional about this.
What do you believe?
I believe that the Bible is the absolute authority in matters of faith and practice. It's 100% true, with no exceptions or figurative sections. I believe in the verbal, plenary inspiration of Scripture; in one God eternally existing in three Persons; in the creation of all things, including man, as the direct act of God; in eternally secure salvation by grace through faith in the shed blood of the Lord Jesus Christ; in the incarnation and virgin birth of Christ, and in His bodily resurrection; in the personal, bodily, premillennial return of the Lord Jesus Christ and His millennial reign on earth.
What age level should I buy?
This is by far the most common question we get around here. Please check out this video. I'll show you the differences between the levels and walk you through how to use them as a family!
How many copies should I buy?
If you are buying digital, you only need one copy. If you plan to share with people outside of your home (like a group, co-op, church, etc.) you will need a site license to do so. Those can be found on each product's page.
If you are buying softcover, you should purchase one copy per child. This will enable children to write in the book, as it is designed to record their drawings and responses to the Word. Please check out this video for more explanation on why this is so important!
How long are your studies?
Each Bible study is a slightly different length, ranging from 20 lessons to 28 lessons. We suggest doing one lesson a day. Most kids find that it takes about 15 minutes a day.
Studies with 20 lessons:
Obey
Do Right
Fruit of the Tongue
My Brother's Keeper
Navigating Friendships
Foundations of Faith
A Content Heart
Studies with 25 lessons:
Keep Thy Heart
Studies with 28 lessons:
Developing a Quiet Time
My girls really enjoy this study, ages 4 and 7. My oldest, for her birthday, after discussing our tongue bringing life or death, wished that her tongue would only speak of good things! It definitely got through to her! They both enjoyed the activities and the power truths!
I was on the search for Bible studies for kids that dealt with specific topics and this was exactly what I was needing! My 7yo loves doing it and I love how beautiful it is and the high quality of the products!
We have been doing this Bible study with our kids. My step son, who is 12 years old is very guarded with his emotions. After one of the studies I prayed that God would show us things we need to ask forgiveness for and heal our hearts from others who have harmed us with their words. We then spent three minutes in silence. He started to weep uncontrollably. Holy Spirit moved and is still moving. Thank you for being a conduit of Jesus’s love!
Raise them up and the way that they should go ....
We did this as a family devotion with our kids. They don't always talk the nicest to each other and this study has helped point out better ways for them to communicate with each other.
We did this with our neighbors over the summer. The kids all enjoyed it and we all (myself included) learned a lot!
My daughter and I both loved this little devotional. It has a good balance of scripture, teaching, and fun things for the child to do. We enjoyed incorporating this devotional into our morning bible time. I would definitely buy other studies from Not Consumed and highly recommend this to others!
I bought the fruit of the tongue study for our 3 kids (16,14,11) we tried to do it all together but found out quickly that they got much more out of the study doing it in their own. Especially my 11 yo girl. She tells me all about each of her lessons and what she’s learned. The best was when she came to me and said she learned that if she gets mad she should use wise words when she’s talking to herself. She should say to herself that she’s stupid or dumb but instead use wise words. :) this revelation has changed her heart and it is seen from the outside. We are so grateful to not consumed for making these beautiful studies. I highly recommend it for your family.
I cannot say enough wonderful things about this study. The
Lord asked me to mentor my friend’s adopted daughter (12 years old) since we know she is struggling with some things from her past. She struggles with verbal outbursts and this study is helping her so much. I love that her family can also see a positive change in her already! Thank you so much!
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